lillian bustle , from new jersey , revealed that she also calls herself ` short ' , because she is 5 ' 3 '' , and ` wife ' , because she is married , noting that each of these words is just another self-descriptor for her , who insists that the word does n't have to be used as a synonym for ` ugly ' .
` we as women are programmed to tell each other that we 're not fat , because to many people - fat is the worst thing that you can be .